She/He has no history of long term or significant lasting relationships.Most emotionally healthy individualshave a dating history of at least a few relationships that demonstrate some stability or consistency. When they describe why things didn’t work out there is a sense of balance for both parties. If the person your dating seems to carry immense hostility with ALL their X’s or if they refer to themselves as always being the “victim” of prior relationship failures, it’s a big red flag. This is a sign that there is no or little insight into their own prior mistakes or failures. They are quick to blame everyone else for circumstances not working in their favor.
Her/His job history is unstable. And it’s never their fault. You may hear things like: “They don’t like me”, or “I had a horrible boss”.If someone has personality problems they rarely own their mistakes and…
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